when nasty women pick on good men
- There is no such thing as a nasty, vindictive woman.
- Only men are bad. Women are only good.
- Men are violent, lazy, irresponsible, untrustworthy, selfish and unreliable.
- Women are none of those things.
- Women are always ‘victims’ of the so-called ‘patriarchy’.
- Any man who is attacked by a woman ‘must have deserved it’.
Society has been conditioned to believe these ‘truths’.
And any man who dares to say anything that challenges these ‘truths’ is instantly labelled a misogynist.
Yet just about every man and woman knows the malicious, vindictive women described in detail in this book, who have, or continue to wreak havoc in the lives of innocent, good men and women.
And all too often they get away with it because there’s ‘no such thing as a nasty woman….’
The authors have been viciously attacked in the media for standing up for innocent men and women by feminist journalists who wish to perpetuate the myth that only men are ever bad. And no matter how compelling the evidence is to the contrary, they won’t listen. And change the subject back to how women are always the victim, never the perpetrators of emotional and physical abuse. This silences the voice of genuine male victims – which in effect is further abuse against such men.
But why not write a book about abusive men AND women – not just women? Good question. These abusive women behave very differently to abusive men.
THAT’S WHY THIS BOOK ONLY FOCUSSES ON SUCH WOMEN IN ORDER TO HELP INNOCENT VICTIMS OF MALICIOUS WOMEN.
what readers say
A must-read for men, women, those in the legal profession, and those in behavioral health professions. Jinx L. Heath Finch
“Women and children don’t lie. Men lie, men deceive, men abuse, and men are malicious and dangerous. At least that’s what political correctness and our current domestic violence laws and domestic violence programs want us to believe. As a woman, a former police officer, and a current behavior health nurse and therapist, I see far too many women who have malicious intentions toward any man they are involved with — women who take advantage of not only men but the laws that assist them in the destruction of any man unfortunate enough to get into a romantic relationship with one of these “bitches.”
Even though this book comes from the UK … it applies to women in the US, too, and it is about time that our therapists and our laws recognize that malicious women exist in our society and while they pretend to be victims and give performances that should be worthy of an Oscar, they are using the law as one of their favorite tools to enhance their maliciousness. In the US, domestic violence laws have created an industry that not only is thriving, but relies on misinformation and statistic manipulation to garner increased funding, provide increased employment opportunities for “victim advocates,” and caused the imprisonment of countless numbers of innocent men falsely accused of domestic violence and/or sexual assault. This book provides examples of couples where the man was the victim of violent assaults, emotional and sexual abuse, and trapped in a relationship where he can’t escape because the laws don’t recognize his rights to property and access to his children equally with their female partners. To leave is to lose access to his children, to lose property, to lose financial resources, and to risk being falsely accused of being violent or a sexual predator.
We women aren’t always “sugar and spice and everything nice.” I recommend this book to women and men patients I serve as we all want someone to love and someone who loves us, and we often don’t see how our intentions, actions, and behaviors stand in the way of achieving a healthy, loving relationship with a significant other (as well as with those we interact with in our immediate families and on the job). A good read with valid observations.
Brenda Baumgart
I have worked with men all my life that had these despicable women in their life. It is so sad, they don’t admit it, until something bad happens. First guy, live in mate, knived him. She drank, hospital wouldn’t let him go home with her, this was in the late 70’s. Second guy also live in mate, had 4 kids all different dads, but he stayed for his baby, when he defended himself she would call 911, he would be arrested. Finally they questioned the kids, the ones that weren’t even his told the cops the truth. Third and forth men I won’t discuss because they still live in it and are constantly manipulated– just in case they read this.
We are doing all men a huge dis-service by not bringing this out in the open and letting it be okay for them to talk about it.
These men are no way -LESS THAN A MAN – they are MORE THAN A MAN.
If you’r a man living in this – you are a man that a REAL WOMAN would die to have in their life, and they would worship you. Men who get into these types of relationships are men with feelings. That is not only appealing to “Crazy” women, because they can manipulate them and their feelings. It is also what “Real” women want!
This book points out that by ignoring this problem we are not getting help for the women. Plus the statistics show that violence against women is DECREASING, and violence against men is INCREASING….The reason? We have brought violence against women out in the open, but put men behind closed doors. PLEASE READ THIS BOOK!
Jo Bloggs
“This book should be on the National Curriculum. If you are thinking about becoming a father, getting married, or have a son, then you owe it to yourself and future generations of men to read about and raise awareness of these types of women.”
Nicky
We are experiencing many of the things this book talks about. It is a frightening reality that many courts refuse to recognise. So many children’s lives are forever altered and many childhoods are taken away–replaced by a mother demanding that she is the only one to be loved and cared for by her children–and that the children are needed for her welfare, money and survival. She doesn’t see it any other way. At the same time that she is trying to destroy a man’s life, she is demanding more play money from him. And the children are still asking dad to pay for more and more ‘things’ they want on top of all he gives already. Dad IS good enough only for money.
J. Adams “Single dad”
A really useful book! If you are stuck in a relationship with a manipulative woman, or getting over the trauma of one, this is a must-read.
But this doesn’t only reflect intimate relationships, work colleagues and even flat mates can also demonstrate this selfish dark-side. The type of female psychosis that this book describes is quite possibly under the surface in most women.
Everybody is in love when they get married… but around half of weddings end in divorce… so, it pays to know the dark-side of the female mind. I suspect that divorce lawyers have already learnt the lessons in this book… that even a good woman has the ability to become a destroyer of all around her.
PLEASE NOTE: “That Bitch” is now out of print. “Venus: The Dark Side” is EXACTLY the same book.
Chapter 1 - She Did WHAT?
Described as ‘domestic terrorists’, read these real life, shocking stories of what malicious women have done to innocent male and female victims in order to get what they wanted at the expense of others.
Chapter 2: Two of a Kind.
Meet Ms Truly Evil and Malice in Plunderland. Detailed case studies of two women who preyed on unsuspecting men. And what can be learned by analyzing their behaviour and the common mistakes made by male victims.
Chapter 3: How Nasty Women Abuse.
The tools of their tyrannical trade. How malicious women so skilfully and covertly inflict physical, emotional, financial and sexual abuse.
What’s inside
Chapter 4: The Psychologies of Malice.
Personality disorders, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviour. How to recognise the tell-tale signs, tactics and behaviour of these women who may be mad, bad or sad.
Chapter 5: Girlfriend, Wife or History?
How some women manipulate men into marriage in such a way that he thinks it was his idea! Why men and women marry. What men must do before they ever ‘pop the question’. The pro’s and con’s of marriage from a male perspective. Pre-nuptial agreements.
Chapter 6: Divorce - The Final Frontier
Why women divorce. What to expect from a vindictive wife. What she is probably advised to do to win a higher settlement. What men must do. What men must NOT do. How to select a lawyer. For any man contemplating divorce, this chapter is must-have information.
Chapter 7: Children as Weapons of Male Destruction.
How malicious mothers learn to hate their former partners more than they love their children. How family courts effectively collude with these women to deprive children of contact with their fathers. And why this is tantamount to child abuse.
Chapter 8: Protection Strategies Against Malicious and Vindictive Women.
Coping strategies that work, and those that won’t. Why she has picked on you. Assessing your options. How to gather proof to protect yourself against false allegations of physical or sexual abuse. How to recognise, deflect and disarm her covert fighting tactics.
Chapter 9: Getting Out of Her Clutches.
Assessing all of the risks you face. Working for one of these women. Protection for employers. Managing conflict conversations, put-downs and her lies. Ending a relationship with an abusive woman.
Chapter 10: Happy Talk
What some women are prepared to do when they are unhappy. And what you can do to become happy again.
Chapter 11: Full Esteem Ahead
Moving on and rebuilding your life.
Appendix: Due Diligence Checklist
Chapter 1
“Sugar and spice and everything nice – that’s what little girls are made of.” Well, not all of them stay that way when they grow up. We have heard countless stories of ruthless, cruel behaviour by the ‘fairer, gentle sex’.
False allegations against men are particularly poisonous, because they hurt other women too, especially the genuine victims of domestic violence and rape, the most heinous of all violent crimes.
Consider rape accusations. Only 5% of rape cases lead to the conviction of the rapist. By definition this means that 95% of accused men go free. It is a travesty of justice when rapists get away with their brutality, but what proportion of men accused of rape were actually innocent all along? How many men are accused of rape by women who agreed to have sex but simply regretted doing so later? Nobody can say, but those innocent men become the victims, not their accusers. And how many of their false accusers are prosecuted for their lies? Hardly any.
Take the case of the man who had been a licensed cab driver for 35 years. This man, a grandfather, worked nights taking home the drunk and the occasional disorderly character, the noisy, those who threw up inside his cab, and those who dropped cigarette butts that burned holes in his upholstery.
At about 3am he picked up two women in their early twenties outside a well-known nightclub. He dropped the first one at her home and took the other to her home, a couple of miles away. The moment he stopped the cab she ripped open her blouse and bra and screamed at the top of her voice: “Rape! Rape! I’m being raped!” Two men heard her screams and rushed to her aid. They dragged the driver from his cab, punched and pinned him to the ground, while one of them called the police.
The cab driver was taken in handcuffs to a police station. His cab was impounded while he was kept in custody for days being interviewed for hours on end. All the while he protested he had not touched the woman. The police didn’t (or couldn’t be seen to) believe him.
From that moment, nobody else seemed to believe him either.
News spread. This man was now a rapist. He explained to a colleague that the idea you are innocent until proven guilty was a myth. It may apply to other crimes he said, but not when a man is accused of rape.
Out of the blue he was told that all charges had been dropped. The police would not be prosecuting him for rape, or any other crime. “Why?” he asked.
The father of the first woman had asked her what she knew. He persisted when she clammed up. Eventually she burst into tears and said: “Dad, all she did was try to get out of paying the fare. What’s wrong with that?”
The cabbie has never driven his taxi since.
Warren Blackwell, a 36-year-old father of two, came off even worse. He was arrested, convicted and jailed for sexual assault and rape. He always maintained his innocence. His wife stood by him throughout. He served three years as a convicted rapist. Then in July 2006 he was released after a detailed investigation by the British Criminal Cases Review Commission concluded he was innocent all along.
Who can imagine the horrors he had to endure because of the evil actions of the woman, whose identity was protected under British law while his name was published repeatedly in the national press? Even the woman’s mother described her as “A persistent liar, very manipulative and a bully.” It emerged that the woman had a history of making serious false allegations. To date she has not been prosecuted.
How many other innocent men have had their lives wrecked because anonymous accusers make false allegations and get away with it?
And how many of these dishonest women make it even more difficult for genuine rape victims to secure convictions against their vicious attackers?
In early 2007 Emma Golightly was jailed for two years in Newcastle upon Tyne in the UK for conning men out of $500,000. She was described as a serial liar who created the perfect illusion of everything a man would want from a woman, specifically to extract cash from them. In an article in The Mail on Sunday, Stephen Keenan, her 24-year-old fiancé said: “I couldn’t believe my luck that someone with her background would be interested in an ordinary working man like me – I really thought I had hit the jackpot.”
She was not what she claimed. She created a web of lies to deceive various men. She said she had a highly paid job and was the daughter of a millionaire High Court judge. She said she was born in South Africa and educated in Dallas, and attended university at 16 because she was so intelligent. In reality, she lived in a shabby apartment in a poor part of Newcastle. Golightly also had a child that she didn’t mention. She told Keenan she had been married but her husband raped her at the age of 17, that she was pushed down some stairs and lost her twin babies.
To another man she claimed to be a millionaire but was suffering from terminal cancer and wanted to marry before she died.
One of her victims recounted that many of her stories related to highly sensitive, personal matters, which no decent man would ever insist she prove.
Like so many women of this type, she played the sympathy card almost perfectly. When Keenan attended court the day she was sentenced, he is reported as saying it was like attending a funeral. The difference was that the woman he had loved had not died – she had never existed.
Golightly broke the law and went to jail for it, but it is still possible to extract millions from men when you know how to use the law to your advantage.
Women complain about PMS, but I think of it as the only time of the month I can be myself. Roseanne Barr, Comedian
In 2007 one of the highest-profile divorces in the UK was between Heather Mills, and Sir Paul McCartney, the British music icon. Who will ever know the truth about their relationship?
Men who grew up listening to The Beatles are prepared to accept that McCartney is a highly gifted ‘good guy’. Could he possibly be the ogre Ms Mills has claimed he is in the tabloid press? Or is she the true ogre of the piece?
Ms Mills’ father, who once served a prison sentence for fraud, has described his own daughter as a liar for making unsubstantiated allegations of sexual abuse against him in her autobiography. Ms Mills has also been criticised by the police for making too many unnecessary emergency phone calls. Did she make up the stories? And how economical with the truth has she been while using the legal system to extract as much money as possible from McCartney?
Morality and fairness have no place in matrimonial law, it seems.
In December 2014, Reuters reported “Billionaire hedge fund manager Chris Hohn has been ordered to pay his estranged wife Jamie Cooper-Hohn 337 million pounds ($530 million) in the largest divorce settlement in British legal history.”
Because of some of these astronomical financial settlements being handed out in the divorce courts, how many ordinary, honest, decent, and ambitious young men are concluding that marriage isn’t worth the financial risk anymore? After all, 45% of Canadian, 51% of American and 57% of British marriages now end in divorce.
No entrepreneurial man would invest in a business start-up in which the risk-reward ratio was so stacked against him. It’s worth remembering that according to the law marriage is a business partnership, and when divorce breaks it in two, the partners must share all the wealth created while it was intact. Is it any wonder that more men are questioning the idea of making a commitment to a woman when he has potentially so much more to lose than she does?
Research conducted for the UK Marriage and Relationship Counselling Service (MRCS) in 2006 found women are more likely than men to perpetrate domestic violence. This report, based on a survey of 530 MRCS clients, found mutual violence accounts for 33% of domestic cases, female-perpetrated violence 41%, and male-perpetrated violence 26%. Some women’s organizations need to perpetuate the myth that all men are a threat to women, just to qualify for the vast sums of public money to fund their work. If they do not maintain the victim status of women, the cash will stop. By refusing to acknowledge the true extent of violence perpetrated on men by women, these organizations effectively deprive male victims of the help they need and deserve. They too, are abusing innocent men.
United States Department of Justice statistics for 2005 show that 1510 people were murdered by ‘intimates’, which means a spouse, ex-spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. The statistics are surprising. When men and women are asked “How many of those were men?” the average answer is “probably just a few”. They aren’t even close. The accurate answer is 329. Still a minority, but more than 21%, which is not insignificant.
These women do not destroy the lives of just their victims.
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About
Mary Cleary
Mary is a former nurse in the Republic of Ireland. As part of her job she travelled with ambulance crews to give first aid and other medical help to men and women.
Over time, she started to notice situations in which a significant number of men had received injuries by their wives and girlfriends. This was a social taboo. The men didn’t report the abuse. The women didn’t admit to it.
Mary later founded the first ever charity (www.Amen.ie) to protect innocent male victims of domestic violence. At first, she and these male victims were ridiculed and attacked by the domestic violence ‘industry’ which needed to perpetuate the myth that only women were victims of domestic violence – and therefore only help for women should be funded.
On one occasion she and her Amen colleagues paid to attend a domestic violence conference but were physically barred from entry by the organisers who wanted to ensure Mary never got the opportunity to tell a government minister who had been invited to attend, why male victims deserved to be helped too.
Mary fought tirelessly on behalf of innocent men and women who were targeted by those she described as ‘domestic terrorists’. It took years, but eventually she and her team got the attention of government and went on to train the police to recognise domestic violence situations in which violent women falsely claimed victimhood.
Countless men and women who were helped by Amen have described Mary and the charity as ‘lifesavers’.
Amen.ie continues.
Mary is now retired, living on the west coast of Ireland with her partner, Yorkshire terrier and a growing collection of ukuleles.
About Roy Sheppard
Roy is a former BBC network TV presenter, interviewer and reporter in England. He has reported on many controversial issues. He is the author of 7 books. And is a trained hypnotherapist.
As a teenager, he was bullied mercilessly and vowed he would always stand up against injustice – however politically incorrect and out-of-step it meant him being.
Routinely verbally abused by angry feminists in the media who
Then after YEARS of being asked for advice by his single female friends, Roy came up with a blueprint for dating success. His original book “How to BE The One” sold out. He was interviewed about this new approach to dating by major magazines such as the Mail on Sunday’s YOU magazine, lots of radio shows and even on CNN in the US.
“How to be LOVED” is the updated eBook version.
He lives and works in rural Somerset, England with his partner and their dog.
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