coming soon. the app
Improve your relationship intelligence.
Perhaps you think you’re a 10. But what are your friends NOT telling you? Fill in the self-assessment. Then invite friends and family who know you well to fill it in too – but totally ANONYMOUSLY! Then download a private report which compares your personal perceptions with what your friends really think of you.
OR… you’re already in a relationship and want to know how compatible you are. In this case, you both do the assessment and share each other’s results from your downloaded pdfs.
You receive your AttractIQ Score and your AttractIQ Gap (the difference between your self-perception and the perception of others who know you well.)
Either way, you’ll see your blind-spots, your hidden strengths, where you’re aligned and areas where you’re not (at the moment).
For Android and ios.
Research analysing millions of interactions across dating apps has revealed a stark reality: digital dating environments routinely skew perceptions of desirability. Studies show that men swipe right between 46–61% of the time, while women typically swipe right only 4–14% of the time. This asymmetry creates a structural imbalance where many women receive large volumes of attention while most men struggle to gain visibility.
The result is a distorted marketplace. AttractIQ helps men and women to gain a more accurate view of themselves by people who know them well.
In some datasets, women match with roughly 45% of profiles they like, while men match with only about 3%. Network modeling studies of dating platforms also show that attention tends to cluster around a small minority of users, leaving the majority with very little engagement.
“These platforms weren’t designed to give people an accurate picture of their dating prospects,” says founder Roy Sheppard. “They were designed to maximise swipes and screen time. That has consequences: inflated expectations for some users and unnecessary discouragement for others.”
AttractIQ aims to change that.
“I see a future where singles who are serious about finding a long-term partner can include their AttractIQ score as part of their dating profile so potential partners can see something far more meaningful, than the millions of superficial profiles seen today.” says Sheppard.
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Do you brighten a room when you walk in – or when you leave?
Post-pandemic, how awkward or anxious do you feel when walking into a room of strangers at social or professional settings? It’s now extremely common everywhere. This eBook will help you.
It’s short, succinct and easy-to-read packed with pocket wisdom, offering more than a hundred practical tips and ideas. You will refer to this little book time and again.
Meet, Greet & Prosper includes:
- How to walk into any room with confidence.
- Conversation is a dance – learn the steps to become an accomplished conversationalist
- Tips to remember people’s names.
- How to be memorable for the right reasons.
About the author.
A former BBC TV and radio presenter and an international conference speaker, emcee and facilitator.
He is the author of seven personal development books, featured in countless newspapers and magazines and has been interviewed many times on radio and TV about his work.